Duke of Cambridge and Prince Harry speak out about coping with sorrow and loss after the death of their mother 20 years ago

The Duke of Cambridge and Prince Harry have exposed deep compunction that their last speech with their baby was a brief phone call that they cut short because they were too busy playing with their cousins.

In a documentary about Diana, Princess of Wales, her sons speak candidly about their remorse, their loss, and coping with the stun of her premature death, aged 36, 20 years ago.

They too remember the best father ever, a baby, says Harry who was just 12 when she died, who introduced a breath of fresh air to everything she did.

William, who was 15 when Diana died, describes word of her fatality as if an shake had run through the house. His brother divulges he has only cried twice since, the first at her funeral on the island at Althorp, her ancestral residence where she is buried, and maybe simply since then maybe once. So theres a lot of agony that still needs to be let out.

Diana died in a vehicle clang in Paris on 31 August 1997. On the day she was killed, William describes how the brothers were having a very good time at Balmoral, the Queens private Scottish estate, with their cousins.

Harry and I were in a frantic hurry-up to say goodbye, see you afterward and were going to go off … if Id known what would happen I wouldnt have been so blas about it. But that phone calls fastens in my thought fairly heavily, he says.

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A picture from Dianaa personal photo album establishing her maintaining Prince William while pregnant with Prince Harry. Picture: EPA

Harry uncovers he grew up thinking that not having a mom was normal. He says he was puzzled by the public sorrow, and recollects making: How is it that so many people who have never satisfied “womens issues”, my mother, are likely to be scream and showing more spirit than I was feeling ?.

In lighter minutes, the documentary, to be screened on Monday, captivates their recollections of what a fun baby she was.

William reveals how she once invited dwelling three patterns as a surprise plow for him. She organised when I came home from academy to have Cindy Crawford, Christy Turlington and Naomi Campbell waiting at the top of the stairs, I was probably a 12 – or 13 -year-old boy who had signs of them on his wall. I exited bright cherry-red and didnt know fairly what to say and sort of flub and I envisage pretty much fell down the stairs on the way up. I was completely and utterly awestruck, he remembers. That was a very funny storage thats lived with me forever.

She too bought him the rudest placards, which he was flustered to open in front of his schoolmates.

Harry describes her as a total kid through and through, whose adage was you can be as naughty as you miss, only dont get caught.

Their mother lives with them every day. She defined us up really well. She gave us the right tools and has prepared us well for life in the best road she could , not, clearly, knowing what was going to happen, says William. He is obstructing alive the remember of Granny Diana for his own children, George and Charlotte, as he regularly talks to them about her.

Harry declares his difficulties in addressed with his sorrow. Beings deal with grief in different ways, and my behavior of dealing with it was just by basically shutting it out, locking it out. The 10 years that I was in the army, I just dug my manager in the sand and “its just” … “its just” white noise. And I went through a whole reporting period having to try and sort myself out.

Speaking openly about her for the documentary had been daunting at first, but a healing process, William told journalists ahead of the broadcast. Her sons hope it will remind the public, specially the generation too young to remember her, of their moms warmth and witticism and also her achievements. The program chronicles Dianas personal outing, her expeditions supporting the homeless, those living with Aids, and to ban landmines.

William said: We wont be doing this again we wont speak as openly or publicly about her again, since we are feel hopefully this movie will be delivered the other side from close clas friends you darknes not have heard before, from those who know each other best and from those who want to protect her storage, and want to remind people of the person that she was.

He added: Twenty years on, Harry and I felt that it was an appropriate time to open up a little more about our mother.

The documentary, Diana, Our Mom: Her Life and Legacy will be screened on ITV on Monday 24 July at 9pm.

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